Second Coming

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Hey John - nice to see you.

Interesting shape to your piece - in this format it it looks like something moving quickly, but if it was centred it would look like a bird.
We, The People over here.. the ones of Freedom and of Choice...
just curious John, do you believe this, that you are people of freedom and choice?
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Hi Cate... nice to hear from you. I'm always around - looking at poems and waiting for the USA portion of Leonard's tour to be announced.

And.. Of course I believe it.. (and it is true of many other lands also) or I would not write it. America gets kicked around a lot - but - there is a reason that people still come from all over to live here.

Do you not believe this? Do I sense a debate?
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I'm looking forward to Leonard coming back to North America too.

Do you not believe this? Do I sense a debate?
:D - okay a friendly one, just for fun but I don't think it's winnable as it's based on belief

Do I believe this - Nope I don’t buy it. I believe that we in the west have lots of choice regarding things to buy, but beyond that our choices and freedoms become more constrained.
Looking at the States - I understand that people in the states enjoy some freedoms that do not exist in some other countries but at the same time that freedom can be limited. A prime example, most of your states still limit who is allowed to marry who.
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Mornin Cate : )

Freedom does need to be limited. We can not be free to do anything we please or chaos will run wild. We can not just kill someone because we feel like it. It's difficult finding that area where all can agree. The West is far from perfect - but - I cringe at the limitations I see placed in other lands.

Concerning gay marriage... the majority prevails. The United States is still very old fashioned concerning a lot of things. It's overall combined consciousness is growing - It's only a matter of time - we have come a long way in the last 50 years. Personally.. I think it's ridiculous to have such bans. People Love who they Love... I see no difference in a marriage between a Man and a Woman vs. Woman and a Woman or Man and a Man.
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Morning John :)

all agreeing is not freedom - freedom for some is not freedom for all.

When it comes to civil liberties shouldn't it be an all or nothing - why is okay to leave some people out. Of course I don’t think that people should be allowed to run around killing people (except for Georges who only does it in poems) that would infringe on other peoples freedom to live.

but take something as simple as feeding your baby

http://www.feministezine.com/feminist/m ... ublic.html
this is the tag - Chicago Woman Arrested for Breastfeeding in Public

Apparently 12 000 women were arrested in a year for nursing babies in public the U.S. and another 30 000 for not wearing their shirts. If this weren’t so sad it would be funny. I don’t mean to compare countries or to judge your laws but this is bizarre to me. Just the fact that men are allowed to be topless in places that women are not is bizarre - now if you visit Canada you won’t see topless woman roaming around, except for the odd sunbather in the summer, but at least we have the choice. In the states if you want to mow your law without a shirt your have the freedom to do so only if you’re a man.

So, so far we have not all people are allowed marry their partner of choice, not all Mothers are allowed to legally feed their children in the manor they choose*, and half your population is forbidden to do something that the other half is permitted to do.


* (I have to say this argument will not be applicable soon – seems like laws are starting to change - ½ the states now exempt breast feeding from their indecency laws)
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Hi Cate....No - not freedom - The majority 'Agreeing' is just a consensus... if the people of a given land are ready or want change at a given time and given place. The freedom comes from our having the choice to decide in the first place - many are not given that choice.

The U.S has the Constitution and Bill of Rights that seek to guarantee Civil Liberties. But... Civil Liberties are a tricky thing. What happens when your civil liberties infringe on others civil liberties? It can really become a fine line. Only a few years ago people here could smoke as they please in restaurants and bars - but - what about the people that didn't smoke?... they had to breathe in the dangerous fumes.... so, laws needed to be changed to protect some civil liberties at the cost of others.

Breast feeding could be considered in the same light. Of course it is not dangerous to anyone else - but - flipping out a breast to feed a child could be seen by some as infringing on other's Civil Liberties that do not want to see the breast. The United States is still very prudish where the human body comes in to play - but - not the 'entire' United States and not every state. And....like you said, laws are changing - the U.S is still very young. Me? I'm all for going topless - - I would like to see as many boobs as I can before I die : )

And... 'you should' compare countries and judge - why not? I judge all I see.... Don't get me started on the lack of freedoms and dumb laws thru-out the Middle East.. They make America look like The Garden of Eden - and make themselves appear to be the valley of lost civil rights.
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The U.S has the Constitution and Bill of Rights that seek to guarantee Civil Liberties. But... Civil Liberties are a tricky thing. What happens when your civil liberties infringe on others civil liberties? It can really become a fine line. Only a few years ago people here could smoke as they please in restaurants and bars - but - what about the people that didn't smoke?... they had to breathe in the dangerous fumes.... so, laws needed to be changed to protect some civil liberties at the cost of others.

Breast feeding could be considered in the same light. Of course it is not dangerous to anyone else - but - flipping out a breast to feed a child could be seen by some as infringing on other's Civil Liberties that do not want to see the breast.


Yes, you're absolutely right - a very tricky area.
So just let me wrap my head around this - if the majority of people in a country were to feel that seeing boobs was infringing on their right not to see boobs then it might, possibly, be an acceptable reason to set aside the Bill of Rights (the Civil Liberties) of the minority - so favour would go to the majority.
The women should keep themselves covered. (that sounds a bit familiar)
I understand it's not about boobs. It's about what the populace has decided is 'decent' and what they have decided is 'indecent'.
...So if the majority of people in a country were to think a woman's uncovered hair was indecent ...
...So if the majority of people in a country were to think a woman's uncovered face was indecent....
...So what if the majority of people in a country were to think ......,,,,, .... is that really so different?


Me? I'm all for going topless - - I would like to see as many boobs as I can before I die : )

Hee he - good luck with that.

Anyways, I don't want to sound negative about the States, like you said America (meaning the United States) gets kicked around a lot.
I think it's a good place to live for many, but maybe not the land of Freedom and Choice for all that it could be or will be.
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Cate: Yes, you're absolutely right - a very tricky area.
So just let me wrap my head around this - if the majority of people in a country were to feel that seeing boobs was infringing on their right not to see boobs then it might, possibly, be an acceptable reason to set aside the Bill of Rights (the Civil Liberties) of the minority - so favour would go to the majority.
The women should keep themselves covered. (that sounds a bit familiar)
I understand it's not about boobs. It's about what the populace has decided is 'decent' and what they have decided is 'indecent'.
...So if the majority of people in a country were to think a woman's uncovered hair was indecent ...
...So if the majority of people in a country were to think a woman's uncovered face was indecent....
...So what if the majority of people in a country were to think ......,,,,, .... is that really so different?

I guess the bottom line is - You can't make everyone happy. I think in the case you are making - there is a difference. I see a clear distinction between being forced to wear a Burka with only your eyes allowed to show and being forced to keep your top on in public. It might not reach the heights that you would like - but - There is an expansion of consciousness, an expansion of freedom there.

Me: Me? I'm all for going topless - - I would like to see as many boobs as I can before I die : )
Cate: Hee he - good luck with that.

Yeah.. I know. : (

Cate: Anyways, I don't want to sound negative about the States, like you said America (meaning the United States) gets kicked around a lot.
I think it's a good place to live for many, but maybe not the land of Freedom and Choice for all that it could be or will be.

America is what it is - as everywhere else, growing and learning. Making small mistakes and huge mistakes. Alternately helping and hurting the world. But.. the spirit of freedom and of choice and of goodness is here. I am happy that I was born here in this imperfect land, on this imperfect world. Of course there are good and bad people of all lands.. but - I believe I have grown to be a good person... and count my country as one of my teachers and thank her for helping me become who I am.


Enjoy your weekend!
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john.m.lake wrote:Cate: Yes, you're absolutely right - a very tricky area.
So just let me wrap my head around this - if the majority of people in a country were to feel that seeing boobs was infringing on their right not to see boobs then it might, possibly, be an acceptable reason to set aside the Bill of Rights (the Civil Liberties) of the minority - so favour would go to the majority.
The women should keep themselves covered. (that sounds a bit familiar)
I understand it's not about boobs. It's about what the populace has decided is 'decent' and what they have decided is 'indecent'.
...So if the majority of people in a country were to think a woman's uncovered hair was indecent ...
...So if the majority of people in a country were to think a woman's uncovered face was indecent....
...So what if the majority of people in a country were to think ......,,,,, .... is that really so different?

I guess the bottom line is - You can't make everyone happy. I think in the case you are making - there is a difference. I see a clear distinction between being forced to wear a Burka with only your eyes allowed to show and being forced to keep your top on in public. It might not reach the heights that you would like - but - There is an expansion of consciousness, an expansion of freedom there.
Well John - I agree one is much more extreme example of rights and freedoms of some individuals being removed for the comfort sake of others - A Mother on a train should have the right to feed her baby, a baby should have the right to eat when he chooses a fellow passenger should have the right to turn his/her head if offended by eating babies. Jeff should have the right to marry James. I just think it's a bit much to claim to be the ones of Freedom and Choice when really it's more of a the ones of some Freedom and Choice.
America is what it is - as everywhere else, growing and learning. Making small mistakes and huge mistakes. Alternately helping and hurting the world. But.. the spirit of freedom and of choice and of goodness is here. I am happy that I was born here in this imperfect land, on this imperfect world. Of course there are good and bad people of all lands.. but - I believe I have grown to be a good person... and count my country as one of my teachers and thank her for helping me become who I am.
I also am glad to have been born where I was, also an imperfect land but I love it well.


Here are some of the things I like about the States;

The art, movies and music that you generate.

The vibrant mix of people who come from all around the world to become part of your country.

Your marching bands that come to our Santa parade every year – you guys rock!

Despite my argument above, you for the most part, can be who you wish to be and do what you wish to do.

the beauty of your country – mountains, deserts, the Grand Canyon, the Florida Keys – there are so many places that I would like to visit.

It’s a friendly place. When traveling through I have always met very warm and welcoming people.

American’s are generous – you give a great deal to foreign aid and respond quickly to emergencies.

Last but not least, you’re for sure our favourite neighbors – okay you’re our only neighbors but your pretty good ones.

Have a good weekend John :)
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Cate: Well John - I agree one is much more extreme example of rights and freedoms of some individuals being removed for the comfort sake of others - A Mother on a train should have the right to feed her baby, a baby should have the right to eat when he chooses a fellow passenger should have the right to turn his/her head if offended by eating babies. Jeff should have the right to marry James. I just think it's a bit much to claim to be the ones of Freedom and Choice when really it's more of a the ones of some Freedom and Choice.


A mother on a train would never be told she could not feed her baby - she does not have to have the breast exposed for all the world to see - she could easily block the view from other passangers. Or.. a breast pump could be used and the baby could drink from a bottle. Many woman feel uncomfortable themselves with exposing their breasts in public. You do not like the idea that people would be offended by a natural act - I understand this - breast feeding does not offend me in the least.

And.. never claimed to be the 'only' ones of freedom and choice. We all only have 'some' freedom and choice in the end. You can not do anything you please where you are anymore than I could do anything I please where I am.

I'll be here for a few more hours... bring it on : )
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bring it on : :lol:

No I don't think it would - that's why I choose that example. The point is in your country you can arrested in several states for breastfeeding!!!

I have to tell you - I'm not sure debating is my thing

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And.. never claimed to be the 'only' ones of freedom and choice. We all only have 'some' freedom and choice in the end. You can not do anything you please where you are anymore than I could do anything I please where I am.
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Well actually John - I could Marry my girlfriend if I wasn't already married and if we wanted we could get married topless in a public park and if the maid of honor wanted to nurse her baby during the ceremony that would be honkey dorey. At the reception our guests could smoke pot - I'm not sure if that's legal or not legal but nobody quite knows and the worst that would happen would be a police officer might ask you to put it out.

I am not allowed to smoke in a restaurant though - that is true.
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Come on Cate - this is fun : )


I know I know.. I agree it's a dumb law wherever it is. But it looks like things are not all rainbows on your end..

http://www.infactcanada.ca/Breastfeeding_Rights.htm
"Your right to breastfeed anywhere, anytime is protected by the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms.

Despite this, breastfeeding is still an endangered practice. The entrenchment of a bottle-feeding culture, public policy, institutional practices and negative attitudes towards breastfeeding have all minimized and undervalued the contribution breastfeeding women make to the health and well-being of our society. As a result, they still risk harassment - stares, leers and even expulsions - when feeding their baby in public places."
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Cate: Well actually John - I could Marry my girlfriend if I wasn't already married and if we wanted we could get married topless in a public park and if the maid of honor wanted to nurse her baby during the ceremony that would be honkey dorey. At the reception our guests could smoke pot - I'm not sure if that's legal or not legal but nobody quite knows and the worst that would happen would be a police officer might ask you to put it out.

I am not allowed to smoke in a restaurant though - that is true.

Yes, but could the groomsmen have their dicks dangling? Could the guests be shooting heroin ? Could they punch out the police for telling them to turn down the music ?
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Actually we just had an incident in Toronto - a Mother was asked to leave the pool to feed her baby, the shit hit the fan so to speak, it was on the news a big commotion.

People staring at you - I never found that, both of my kids were breast fed until 15 months it was very rare for somebody to respond negatively. It could be different depending on where you live, it's certainly not uncommon to see a Mom nursing - mind you I don't think it's uncommon in the states either. There are a lot of people who choose to bottle feed and that's there choice.

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john.m.lake wrote:
Yes, but could the groomsmen have their dicks dangling? Could the guests be shooting heroin ? Could they punch out the police for telling them to turn down the music ?


I didn't say that we can do whatever we want I was responding to your point.

You can not do anything you please where you are anymore than I could do anything I please where I am.


There are some things that we can do that you can't

We have a public decency law like you, but it does not address gender difference. In the States you have 2 sets of rules - in way we do to just not legally as I said before if you visit you won't see chicks walking around without shirts, we don't but it's our choice. If we wanted to we could in the same places a man could at least - not the mall - they have a sign on the door. If the guests wanted to shoot heroin they'd have to leave and go to a clinic and no shooting heroin is not legal here - do you guys have meth clinics?
and Why would someone be stupid enough to punch a police officer? :shock:
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In fairness there are things that you guys can do that we can't - buying health care services for example. I don't think that one country is better or freer then the other - just slightly different.

I gotta head out John :)

Have a good weekend!

Cate
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